Obviously, easy social media access is
a big part of this. Thanks to smartphones, you can access the social
media dopamine rush anytime that you want.
Recognizing Possible
Signs
How can you distinguish between
healthy social media usage and addictive behavior? By understanding
the possible warning signs. Here are a few behaviors you need to
watch out for.
Checking social media first thing in
the morning can be a dangerous sign. It shows that social media is a
high priority and you may not be able to start the day without that
dopamine rush.
Constantly refreshing your feed or
timeline is another sign. This shows a constant need for new content
that may not be
healthy.
Arguably, the biggest sign is whether
you obsess over your online reputation. Signs of this include
worrying whether a post will get enough "likes" and obsessing over
finding the perfect images of yourself to post.
If you are engaging in some of these
behaviors, you may be using social media as a coping mechanism.
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The Dangers Of A
Coping Mechanism
Addictive substances and behavior are
always more dangerous when used as a coping mechanism. For example,
there is a world of difference between drinking with friends because
you are happy and drinking alone because you are depressed.
Using social media when you are
lonely, depressed, or stressed out is actually quite dangerous. It
means you are seeking out that dopamine rush to make yourself feel
better. And the more you rely on social media, the likelier you are
to get addicted.
Eventually, that addiction may start
affecting your life. If you'd rather browse
Twitter or
Instagram all
night than hang out with your closest friends, then you may have a
problem.
Tracking Your Usage
How do you know how much you are using
social media? Because there are multiple social media apps, it can
be difficult to track your exact usage.
The solution? Another app, of course!
Apps such as In Moment help you track how much you use each social
media app.
That same app can help you set limits
on your usage and keep you from accessing social media if you go
over that limit. Eventually, though, you may want to delete apps
like Instagram entirely.
Social Media and
Social Anxiety
While it's difficult to diagnose
social media addiction, it's not hard to see the negative effects
that social media can have. In fact, recent research shows that
social media can seriously hurt your self-esteem.
The biggest reason for this is that
you are likely to compare yourself to those on your social media
feed. When you see someone celebrating a new home or a new
promotion, you may end up stressing over the fact that you aren't
"keeping up" in your own life.
Social media also stokes the classic
Fear Of Missing Out. Why do you constantly check social media? Due
to FOMO, you don't want to miss out on any major online
developments.
But what you see online (for example,
pictures from a reunion you couldn't attend) can enhance that FOMO.
This creates a closed circuit where you can't stop using social
media even as it makes you feel worse about your life.
Dangerous From A
Young Age
One final thing to keep in mind is
that children are at significant risk of experiencing social media
addiction.
Children (particularly teenagers)
already struggle with things like poor self-image and self-esteem.
Social media can magnify these issues when a teen compares
themselves to someone's latest Instagram photo.
And children also have plenty of
stressors ranging from school to parents to the struggles of
puberty. They are likely to seek social media as a coping mechanism
and end up feeling worse than they did before.
Too Much Social
Media: What Comes Next?
Now you know how to tell if you're
using too much social media. But do you know who can help break that
addiction?
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